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HOW TO CONTACT A DOMINATRIX
Email a dominatrix something that is way too long and she will assume you are a wanker or an email freak. That is someone who gets off on writing us very long and very elaborate stories about their kinky fantasies. Your email can be descriptive and informative but must be to the point, and must state that you are interested in booking a session. Are you calling her on the phone? Same rules apply. Keep it short, ask the right questions, don’t tell her your life story.
“Hello. My name is John. I’m brand new to this and very nervous but decided I need to finally take the plunge. I liked your website and I see we have a lot of the same interests. (Friendly)
I know I am submissive and I have a foot fetish. I like the idea of a Dominant woman controlling me. Pain is something I want to try but I am new to it so I ask we take things very slow. A few things that interest me also are bondage and also human furniture play. I am intrigued by verbal degradation but have never before tried it so perhaps that is something we can also try? I had a girlfriend tie me up once and control me during sex but that was the only past experience I ever had and I always wanted something more. I’ve never seen an actual Dominatrix. (Informative, but short and to the point. Seems like this guy has been trying to figure out his interests and knows a bit of what he’s into). I have a fetish also for black stockings. I have knee problems so I can’t kneel on a hard surface or for a long period of time. (Things I should know in advance, glad he mentioned this right away so I don’t forget the stockings and so I know to not put pressure on his knees).
I am available Friday and Saturday evenings after 6pm. Roughly, where are you located and when are you available? I’d like maybe to have a short phone conversation with you first if that’s ok just to make sure this is really you.
Thanks in advance Mistress Michelle. I hope you consider me for a session.
-John 555-555-5555 (please call only before 5pm, and don’t text or leave voicemails)” OR “Please email me back.”
(Implies you wanting to move onto the next steps, such as chatting with her and booking an appointment).
HOW TO NOT CONTACT A DOMINATRIX
“Yo, u avail?” (You are a time-wasting disrespectful jerk)
“I want a session. How much?” (You are not even telling us what you are into, and for how long of an appointment, so how can we give you a price, most likely very unintelligent and disrespectful)
“How many roses?” (we are not hookers, this person most likely is after sex)
“Call me. BOB 555-5555” (you are probably pranking your friend by emailing his number out to Pro Dommes)
“I want you to own me and control me and I want to be your slave forever. Tom 555-5555.” (you want to be my slave for free and are not interested in booking a real appointment)
“(insert 2-5 page biography of perverted past endeavors and kinky future hopes).” (you are jerking off while writing this, and you are going to email this novel of smut to every dominatrix listed in all 50 states).
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